I've come over from another mud wanting a fresh experience after a hiatus in mudding. Impy is dfelivering exactly that and i'm loving it so far apart from one thing. Afking. Where I was before it was highly frowned upon, but i see a lot of it going on here and it does bug me, i guess cos i'm used to it not being allowed.
I understand that sometimes something comes up and you have to dash away for a moment, or maybe a handfull of moments. and i understand when people are say, logged in at work and their response time might be a bit slow when sent a tell or spoken to on a channel. But from where i came from if you were logged in you were expected to respond eventually.
the afking i'm seeing here is a case of people being on -all the time- and -never- seeming to respond to me. Multiple times I've tried to speak to people via tells or whatever and just been blanked. Multiple times i've thrown emotes around a room with people in to no avail.
is the stance on it here more lax, or have i just been unlucky? I find it kind of damaging to have people like that in a guild. Yes it is better to have someone logged in and really delayed than no-one on at all, but to have people logged in that never respond is something else. It makes me frustrated when i think "oh good, there are people on, maybe i can feed my rp addiction" only to have said people just stand around applying defences when they run out with a glazed over look in their eyes.
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Just keep trying to engage people like you did with me and others. You will find that many people are not AFK, they are merely lost in some task that is not easily evident to you. A lot of people 'AFK' at the Shuk, for instance, are shooting the **** on our ringtell discussing PK and RP.
I try my hardest to engage new players. You slipped by my notice because your guild is sort of dead.
And it's way, way, way more fun than you think it will be.
"On the battlefield I am a god. I love war. The steel, the smell, the corpses. I wish there were more. On the first day I drove the Northmen back alone at the ford. Alone! On the second I carried the bridge! Me! Yesterday I climbed the Heroes! I love war! I… I wish it wasn’t over."
Khizan is right, it is -amazingly- fun. And taking part in the shardfalls can help you get to know some of the more pvp minded folks who don't typically roleplay in custom emotes. (Balance restriction. )
Sometimes it is hard to break into the cliques, especially if you are roleplaying a shy character, but don't give up. As someone else suggested, for at least a little while, try and turn everything into a conversation.
Maybe it's worth brewing up some ideas for making that experience less jarring to our new players, like you.
We need more AFK orcs (and let people idle in Dis)
I play a lot from work. It means I leave the client open and check every while to see if there is a shardfall/something that I should pay attention to.
One reason of why people do that instead of just logging in and out is the part of putting defenses up. It is just simpler to stay connected.
Understand your point of view, but there are few solutions that are worth the effort. Thankfully, at least some of the guilds merged, so people are less bound to end in a guild where everyone is blank-eyed.
Ahkan (Afk:20), Selthis (Afk:19), Khizan (Afk 10), Bathan (afk 5)
It was an easy way to find people who wouldn't fight back. There were many tears from the Saboteurs and Antioch. Life was hard.
**Not that the saboteurs ever actually did anything outside of OMGTOXINBAN (and 'personal' roleplay)
Way back in the day, I used to set my timeout to zero, turn off all my triggers and timers, and then go sit in Caanae and watch while I slowly climbed to the top of the who list. Eventually, somebody would go "Hey, Rumal is at the top of the who list and he's out in Caanae, he's either DCed or AFK, I'm gonna go kill him" and then they'd get an unpleasant surprise.
I learned that from you, btw, back in Achaea. :P
"On the battlefield I am a god. I love war. The steel, the smell, the corpses. I wish there were more. On the first day I drove the Northmen back alone at the ford. Alone! On the second I carried the bridge! Me! Yesterday I climbed the Heroes! I love war! I… I wish it wasn’t over."
"On the battlefield I am a god. I love war. The steel, the smell, the corpses. I wish there were more. On the first day I drove the Northmen back alone at the ford. Alone! On the second I carried the bridge! Me! Yesterday I climbed the Heroes! I love war! I… I wish it wasn’t over."